COP 2015 |
Serving food at St. Patrick's Soup Kitchen |
Vacation Bible School |
Drip, drip, DROP. |
The fate of the loser... |
I can
describe to you what we did during theological reflection and it truthfully
won’t sound all that interesting. The kids returned from their work sites, they
had a little bit of free time and then after dinner, we broke into our theological reflection groups. Each group had about eight people and met at a designated spot around the campus. Once everyone was together, we lit a candle and had thirty minutes of quiet reflection on Christ’s work
in the course of our day. When the thirty minutes were up, the chapel bell was
gleefully rung by members of Kelley’s group and we reconvened as a group for 45
minutes. In that time we discussed where they encountered Christ in the course of their day, went over the reflection questions from their journals and when it was all said and done, set them free to enjoy a little of bit of free time before Mass.
You see? On the surface it all
sounds very simple. And yet those were some of the richest small group sessions I ever had as a CCV. You wouldn’t know from just that description what amazing
graces were communicated in the course of those discussions. As the kids
described their day (both where they found joy and where they felt stretched) they
gave their entire small group a glimpse at God’s work in their life. They shared about the moment where their faith became real and
important to them. (Those stories were powerful and a lot of them involved DDA.)
They shared about moments from their work site where they saw God. Whether they saw a kid
come out of their shell, had a moving conversation with a homeless person, or
spent the day reading to an elderly person who had gone blind, it was a powerful witness to God's grace. They engaged topics like what the Eucharist is, what it means to
be a disciple of Christ and what it means to evangelize. In fact, they engaged those topics so deeply that they often spilled over into free time and sometimes continued late at night. Can I do full justice
in describing what a grace it was to see these kids digging deeper in their
faith? Not even close.
Lastly,
there were the service sites. My group went to Cortlandt Manor which is a
nursing home not far from CYFM. Even if I describe how we took “the scenic
route” trying to get to and from Cortladnt Manor on our first day there (and
that is a fairly interesting story), my description of what we did won't sound that interesting. We’d arrive at 9:30 and from then until 4:00, our day consisted of
pushing wheelchairs, running games and making room visits to elderly residents
at the nursing home. Nothing that exciting ever happens there and the residents
themselves will tell you the same thing. It’s a pretty predictable place.
What you
miss from that description are the facial expressions. You can’t see from the
way I described the work how the residents’ faces lit up when Mikayla sat down
to play the piano. (Truthfully, she didn’t either because her back was to
them.) You might laugh as I told you about all the dementia patients who were
convinced I was good husband material (there’s one lady in my life and that’s Our Lady) but despite that, the look of
peace and the smile that came over their face as I held their hand and let them
know someone was there for them was a great grace. Seeing the joy that the
girls in my group brought with them to every resident they encountered was a grace. Seeing
how their faces lit up just as much
as the residents’ as they chatted with them and pushed wheelchairs was a grace. Seeing how
much patience they exercised as they talked with people who couldn’t always
respond much to them was an even greater grace. God's goodness shone through in those moments, but
I’ll be darned if I can adequately communicate it.
Everything
about the retreat was chocked full of grace: the jokes that went around at
dinner, the amazing talents we got to see at the talent show, the side trip my
work group took to see the Graymoor friary, the 11 PM discussion a few of us had
in the chapel about relics, even getting completely covered in paint. If you
saw the joy that permeated every aspect of this retreat, you would know that
God was stretching the hearts of these kids in so many ways and there could be
no doubt His grace was at work. You would know why this was one of the best retreats we had all year.
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